Real world dating words used

[Graybeard]

facts
16,912,133 word count
Source: OK Cupid members profile database
Date : unknown
Not for sale

Word​	overall% use​
am​	1.668%​
love​	1.556%​
dont​	0.822%​
really​	0.719%​
friends​	0.641%​
things​	0.637%​
life​	0.592%​
fun​	0.573%​
being​	0.552%​
enjoy​	0.520%​
music​	0.499%​
going​	0.474%​
anything​	0.418%​
always​	0.413%​
dogs​	0.412%​
looking​	0.410%​
pretty​	0.410%​
someone​	0.376%​
lot​	0.372%​
food​	0.355%​
something​	0.347%​
serious​	0.343%​
favorite​	0.323%​
working​	0.323%​
making​	0.316%​
trying​	0.308%​
likes​	0.301%​
myself​	0.300%​
family​	0.295%​
doing​	0.248%​
feel​	0.245%​
movies​	0.242%​
never​	0.236%​
spanish​	0.234%​
having​	0.231%​
getting​	0.229%​
years​	0.226%​
best​	0.219%​
san​	0.215%​
few​	0.215%​

 

[Graybeard]

What we see here is about natural word use in conversation --not keyword stuffed content on some blog -- you should keep this in mind and probably the search engines all know this too

 

[PureLander]

What about the words (you) and (like)?

- Samira

 

[Graybeard]

you and like are 'stop words' words that are considered ignored by search engines. They are omitted as pointless in the script I wrote.
This is a repurposing. How would you evaluate 16 million words in less than 5 seconds?

grep -iwv "a\|all\|and\|of\|at\|from\|in\|on\|results\|result\|for\|\|\|~\|the\|to\|is\|by\|as\|or\|it\|an\|are\|be\|but\|can\|if\|jan\|that\|feb\|mar\|apr\|may\|jun\|jul\|aug\|sep\|oct\|nov\|dec\|a\|about\|after\|again\|air\|all\|also\|America\|an\|and\|animal\|another\|answer\|any\|are\|around\|as\|ask\|at\|away\|back\|be\|because\|been\|before\|big\|boy\|but\|by\|call\|came\|can\|change\|come\|could\|day\|did\|different\|do\|does\|down\|each\|end\|even\|find\|first\|follow\|for\|form\|found\|from\|get\|give\|go\|good\|great\|had\|hand\|has\|have\|he\|help\|her\|here\|him\|his\|home\|house\|how\|I\|if\|in\|into\|is\|it\|its\|just\|kind\|know\|land\|large\|learn\|letter\|like\|line\|little\|live\|long\|look\|made\|make\|man\|many\|may\|me\|mean\|men\|more\|most\|mother\|move\|much\|must\|my\|name\|need\|new\|no\|not\|now\|number\|of\|off\|oil\|old\|on\|one\|only\|or\|other\|our\|out\|over\|page\|part\|people\|picture\|place\|play\|point\|put\|read\|right\|said\|same\|say\|see\|sentence\|set\|she\|should\|show\|small\|so\|some\|sound\|spell\|still\|study\|such\|take\|tell\|than\|that\|the\|their\|them\|then\|there\|these\|they\|thing\|think\|this\|three\|through\|time\|to\|too\|try\|turn\|two\|up\|us\|use\|very\|want\|was\|water\|way\|we\|well\|went\|were\|what\|when\|where\|which\|who\|why\|will\|with\|word\|work\|world\|would\|write\|year\|you\|your" 1g-$result > g-$result

 

[Graybeard]

Just for kicks I commented out the stop words routine I got this sort

Word​	overall% use​
am​	1.668%​
love​	1.556%​
dont​	0.822%​
really​	0.719%​
friends​	0.641%​
things​	0.637%​
life​	0.592%​
fun​	0.573%​
being​	0.552%​
enjoy​	0.520%​
music​	0.499%​
going​	0.474%​
anything​	0.418%​
always​	0.413%​
dogs​	0.412%​
looking​	0.410%​
pretty​	0.410%​
someone​	0.376%​
lot​	0.372%​
food​	0.355%​
something​	0.347%​
serious​	0.343%​
favorite​	0.323%​
working​	0.323%​
making​	0.316%​
trying​	0.308%​
likes​	0.301%​
myself​	0.300%​
family​	0.295%​
doing​	0.248%​
feel​	0.245%​
movies​	0.242%​
never​	0.236%​
spanish​	0.234%​
having​	0.231%​
getting​	0.229%​
years​	0.226%​
best​	0.219%​
san​	0.215%​
few​	0.215%​
watching​	0.211%​
meet​	0.208%​
might​	0.205%​
every​	0.203%​
open​	0.201%​
next​	0.198%​
probably​	0.194%​
books​	0.194%​
own​	0.193%​
sometimes​	0.193%​
reading​	0.192%​
while​	0.190%​
bay​	0.189%​
usually​	0.187%​
sense​	0.187%​
person​	0.186%​
laughing​	0.185%​
masters​	0.182%​
school​	0.181%​
watch​	0.178%​

Not much real difference and this confirms my gut hunch that the profiles indicate a self-centered attitude with possibly a more;
I don't
-- than an I want
outlook

 

[Graybeard]

dogs is on the list but cats isn't!
What's that all about? </sarcasm>

 

[PureLander]

dogs is on the list but cats isn't!
What's that all about? </sarcasm>

I really thought about it but I decided not to say it lol

- Samira